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Oh Brother …

In the last few weeks I went from having one older brother to having 4 half brothers!!!! What in the world! I am one girl of 5 boys! The younger boys don't know about me yet. The oldest who I mentioned a few posts back was adopted as well. He is the only one that… Continue reading Oh Brother …

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Dad? Wait; What?

You know my dad? How would you know my dad, and how does he not know?!?! OOOooooo wait, father as in biological father not my dad?!? Okay, really?! Wow! Hmm I always knew the pregnancy was a hidden pregnancy. Being hidden, I just assumed my biological father never knew about me. So although the curiosity… Continue reading Dad? Wait; What?

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Expectations

Why now? Why at 33 years old did I get this whole thing started? Why not 18 when I was a legal adult? Why not 21 when I was a "true" adult? At 25 I discovered my records were destroyed, losing all hope. So why now? What promomted me at 33 years old to order… Continue reading Expectations

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My Beginning … 

It’s been awhile since I’ve written anything, and I’ve tried to figure out why.  I've started and stopped over and over again, but it just seems jumbled and random, and just never made sense. So today I am going to sit and just write. I think one of my biggest hang ups has been trying… Continue reading My Beginning … 

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Expect The Unexpected

Two days ago I was driving home, alone with my thoughts and realized it's been one month since I got my DNA results and had a match with BFM.  I started to mentally re-prepare myself for the possibility that I may never have my answers I so longed to know. I could see that BFM… Continue reading Expect The Unexpected

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A day for the Dads!

I want to take a moment and recognize the fathers today!  When t comes to adoption it seems like we always focus so much on the biological mother and not the father.  DADS matter too! I know this because I have two incredible dads in my life my Hubster and my dad.  Today we spend… Continue reading A day for the Dads!

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The Giving Tree 

I am having so much fun with this family tree thing!  I've discovered I am able to create TWO trees!   Eeekk!! How amazing is that?   I have my Biological tree which consisted of Hubster and I with the BrothersDunne and Hubster's immediate family, for now.  I haven't plugged in any of the family… Continue reading The Giving Tree 

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I just can’t focus

I can't keep my head straight this past week. I've written several drafts and none seem quite on track.  I have been floating on cloud nine since I received my DNA matches.  I really didn't get a whole lot of information. I don't have a name or a location, but I have a picture. I… Continue reading I just can’t focus

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What’s in a face?

I never thought in my wildest dreams I'd ever have someone other than my children that I'd look like ...  As you've probably already guessed there was a DNA match on my spit sample.  The whole point of doing this blog was to let go, release my thoughts and my fears and maybe help someone… Continue reading What’s in a face?

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What Am I 

I had a hard time sleeping this morning. I woke up super early and I just laid in bed and played around on my phone. You know the normal stuff, Facebook, instagram, nail tutorials, looking at dream houses hehe.  I started to finally feel sleepy so I figure let me clean out my mailbox and… Continue reading What Am I